Either through an act of kindness, a gesture or a few kind words, or be a shoulder to someone…
Try to be a rainbow in someone’s cloud!
It’ll make your day and how – start with one person and then two and it eventually becomes a habit and makes you a different person altogether!
“Maturity is when you stop complaining and making excuses, and start making changes.” – Roy T. Bennett
It’s always easy to complain, blame someone or something else for any situation that hasn’t gone your way, it’s always easy to make an excuse – so the blame doesn’t come onto you.
However, that is for someone who hasn’t grown up yet, who isn’t mature yet, who still has a lot to learn.
Maturity is when you’re 100% accountable of your actions, when everything you do or say is 100% on you, no matter if it goes in your favour or not, there’s just no blaming others.
That’s the change you make, that’s the mature choice! When you’re accountable, you know you have matured.
Everyone holds people’s opinions on a pedestal and base their lives around it!
However, have you ever read the definition of an ‘opinion’?
A view or a judgement formed about something, not necessarily based on fact or knowledge.
The opinion is not based on facts neither does the person have the 100% knowledge of your life?
Then why are these opinions so important?
Think about it.
An open mind is the key to accepting change and implementing it too.
One can listen to endless inspirational stuff and read n number of books, but if you have a pessimistic mindset towards it, then what’s the point of it all?
First step is to acknowledge that you need change.It all starts from there and it’s all about the Mindset.
Only the achievements are compared, not the goals or the aspirations or the journey or the day-to-day life!
It’s simply astonishing how the society works!
The best way to move forward in life is to follow your Journey and stay in your lane!
Can’t get any simpler than that!
Celebrate others successes instead of dwelling over them!
Support them in their failures instead of enjoying them!
To top it off, walk with others instead of trying to trample them!
Who we are.
Who we become.
What we think.
Where does it all come from?
Certainly not from a bunch of books taught to us during school or college.
We are an amalgamation of every person we meet in our lifetime, every experience we have, every activity we are a part of, our conversations, what we read, what we observe around us.
It all affects us.
We are a sum total of all that.
“Canceling plans to read is ok. Skipping a party for the gym is ok. Staying home to cook is ok. Let’s encourage it and respect self-improvement.” – Chance the Rapper
Upgrading to a better version of ourselves should be the goal!
Whatever makes us happy should be the goal!
Not what makes other happy! Not what is part of the culture! Not what is “supposed to be done”!
You want to improve yourself? Spend your time on the right things which will make you learn more.
Let’s respect and encourage #SelfImprovement!