What’s the value of a kind gesture?
It takes zero efforts to say something kind to another person – short, easy to speak and it’s not taking anything from you.
Yet, one kind gesture brings immense pleasure to the other person – you have just made their day, their month and you wouldn’t even realize it.
It might just be something that the person needed. Its impact would truly last a lifetime.
Be kind, spread kindness and witness the magic! ❤️
Our human brain is in a constant thought process – it is said that, in a single day, you think upto 60,000 to 80,000 thoughts in a day.
Yes, that many thoughts!
Every thought has its own importance, said that, quite often there are thoughts that have no value to us at all. These unwanted thoughts are sometimes negative too – towards us, or towards someone else.
The problem is, when you think about such things a lot, and now the brain gets the signal to think accordingly.
What can you do? You can train your mind to think in a certain way, to think of certain topics and to not think of certain topics.
Think about what you think and act accordingly!
No matter how your yesterday was, good or bad, today and every day is a new day.
A new day to restart, to refresh, to rethink your choices and your decisions and live an entirely new life the next day.
If the circumstances aren’t going your way, today you’ve the chance to change things around.
If the choices made yesterday, were a mistake, today you’ve the chance to make different choices.
Every day you have the chance to live a new day – it’s up to you, whether you want to or not.
You know the thing about shoes, right?
All of us wear shoes, but the difference is that we wear different pair of shoes – different sizes, different designs, different brands and of course, comfort is different for all.
What does that tell you though?
Can you wear the same shoes as mine? What if it doesn’t fit you though?
In the same way, our journeys are different too – our paths are different, our goals are different, our thoughts are different and that’s the beauty of life.
When everything is different, there’s no reason as to why anyone’s journey or anyone’s accomplishments should be compared with someone else.
Let’s try focusing on wearing our shoes for once and not comparing them with someone else’s.
When it comes to building a personal brand, everyone worries about the content to be created, pictures to be clicked and the selling that needs to be done, but trust is an important factor which is often overlooked.
The trust layed down by the audience towards you, trusting with what you say.
Whilst building your brand, one shouldn’t forget the foundation that it is built on, i.e. trust – everything starts from there and everything done thereafter, should be done with that trust in mind.
Once the audience loses that trust, irrespective of what you bring to the table, the essence is already lost.
In any conversation which turns to a argument, one always thinks they are right.
However, we forget something!
What’s wrong for you is right for someone else and vice versa.
That means, both the parties think they are right, in their own way. So how do you solve this conundrum?
Is communication the solution for such a scenario? Would communicating the right way solve that issue?
In my opinion, communication is the medium to solve that situation, but the solution is empathy.
Without having empathy for the other person, there would be no two-way communication but only monologues and arguments.
Empathy is the key, which is often forgotten but needs to be instilled as values so – during such times of communication issues, you always think about the other person first, and react to the situation accordingly!
What is success for you? That is for you to decide.
Let’s put it another way – what are your goals? What do you want to achieve?
Wouldn’t you feel successful when you accomplish your goals? Yet, our “society” bases success on the achievement of a few things and everyone follows that blindly.
That isn’t a problem at all – but, only when you actually want those things for yourself and if that’s the benchmark you’ve set for yourself.
The awareness of the reality of success is important and once you change the perspective on the topic, you start thinking differently.